Shopping with Kids: How Not to Let It Ruin Your Life and Budget
Any parent reading this is likely to agree that going shopping with children isn’t easy. My little girl used to just grab stuff from the supermarket shelves but has now moved onto the next phase, which is pleading for me to buy every single product with a cartoon character on the packaging.
There is no simple solution to this problem but here are a few tactics which have worked for me in recent weeks.
Agree the Budget Before Leaving Home
A toddler obviously has no idea how much all the things they want to buy cost or how annoying it is to be asked for every single thing in sight. If you try telling them that they can’t buy anything when you are already in the supermarket it is probably too late. Instead, you should try telling them before they even leave the house what they have to spend. If they are old enough you could give them the money which they have for spending purposes on this trip. If they are younger then you would be best explaining their budget in terms they can understand; 2 sweets and a packet of crisps or whatever it is that they can buy. As a kid, I used to go the supermarket on my own with about 30p (yes, it was a few years ago now that you ask) and would spend ages trying to find a way of making it stretch to a 2 litre bottle of lemonade and a packet of biscuits. As strange as it may sound, I think that this way of shopping has stood me in good stead in later life, although it has left me with a rather unhealthy weakness for the supermarket’s own brand lemonade.
Don’t Give Them Too Wide a Choice
One of the mistakes I made at first was to give my daughter too wide a choice of options. We were in the dairy section and – knowing that she loves yoghurts as much as I do – I asked her to choose some. To her it must have seemed like she was in some sort of massive dairy based heaven as she looked around in awe. In the end, she went a bit crazy and started grabbing everything in sight. Now I take two or three products in my hand and ask her to choose which one she wants. As your child gets older you can slowly start to widen their choice and maybe give them a small section of the supermarket display to pick their goodies from. You will probably find that they don’t even really notice all of the other things on sale once you start helping them choose from a more limited selection.
The worst thing about having an out of control kid in the supermarket with you is that you probably lose your calm at some point. Before I was a father I used to look at the poor parents being dragged around the supermarkets and wonder how they let their children run amok so easily. Ha! Now I know the answer. It is extremely difficult to try and control a youngster who sees chocolate coated puffs and strawberry yoghurts all around them. Having said that, the worst thing you can do is lose control and get really flustered. It is difficult to stay calm in this situation but if you have carried out the first couple of steps on the list then it should be somewhat easier to do. If this doesn’t work then your last resort might be to check if the store has a crèche to keep them happy while you go shopping.
Do you have any tips for shopping with kids and keeping your sanity?
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